A dating relationship
The fact is that strong relationships develop slowly over time with much hard work and commitment.Most students I talk to on my show, Dawson Mc Allister Live, are so anxious to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, sometimes just to feel loved.It is characterized by urgency, intensity, sexual desire, and or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another.The truth is, this feeling of urgency and intensity or strong attraction toward another person is not necessarily a reliable indicator of whether you are in love or should immediately dive into a serious dating relationship.
Some guys can talk but it doesn’t mean you need to fall head over heels for them.
Don’t rush into something that you didn’t even have time to think about.” When you rush into a romantic relationship you: The picture of relationships we see on television or in the movies doesn’t allow us to see the time and commitment it takes to build a solid foundation.
After a 22 minute episode or a 90 minute move we are left thinking the most romantic relationships happen very quickly, are extremely intense and will last forever.
The wisest man in the bible, King Solomon said, Guard your affections, for out of them come the issues of life.
I see far too many people jumping into relationships and not guarding their affections, only to become confused, disillusioned, and devastated.
Just remember what Jessica has to say: “Don’t jump in too quick, get to know the guy first.