Chat with a sex buddy
Maybe it offers them a sense of release & reassurance in a world which still frowns upon open discussion of female thottyness, or maybe it’s just a passion for gossip, but the amount of embarrassing detail some women seem to spill can be both mildly comical & slightly horrifying from a guy’s perspective.That being said, by college, at some point most girls have probably been privy to the no-holds-barred game of gross, insulting, not PG-rated banter, which most of us dudes consider casual conversation amongst ourselves.The key difference in this game is, rather than playing against our friends, we’re rooting for them; in this context, if our friends are the home team, the girl and her own friends are the rivals, and getting lucky is the prize we ultimately win.Like any big victory, it’s a source of pride for us.Like football, most of them are probably much more interested in hearing about the game-winning pass than getting all of the juicy details about the after party in the locker room.Hanky panky is most definitely a series of intimate, emotional & often embarrassing moments.
A sort of unspoken “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy exists between most guys when it comes to discussing specifics of our current bedroom chronicles.
Sure there are exceptions, but unless something monumental went down, 99% of post coitus conversation between guys is some variation of the following: “So did you spend the night with that chick last night? And if we A new survey sought out to answer the question so many of us have silently asked while sitting next to a hottie in a Lyft Line at 2 a.m.: how many people have banged in an Uber? That might sound low, but that’s just over one in It’s that time of year when the summer heat starts to fade and the cool breeze starts rolling in; when the leaves turn brown and people panic as they struggle to find a partner to cuddle with in the impending cold months.
This phenomenon is known to millennials as “cuffing season.” The end goal: to Trying out online dating sites like Tinder or Ok Cupid for the first time can feel like your sailing in uncharted waters.
If we’re belligerently gloating about what we’d do during our night with Jessica Alba & Mila Kunis, there are no almost bounds to the depravity of the discussion, but, when it comes to specifically talking about the great night we just had with our current hookup buddy, in most cases, we’re only willing to tell about as much as is necessary to let the other guys know that we did in fact get lucky, and that it was awesome. Believe it or not, the vast majority of men still maintain some semblance of respect for women – especially the women who we & our friends care about.
The rest of the details are generally kept pretty murky. If I’m hanging out with you, I most likely respect you at least enough to keep your name as far away as possible from that gross bro-banter I mentioned earlier.
Be wary of men who become over-familiar with you before you've had a chance to develop an intimate relationship with them over time. When he phones to talk with you and regardless of the topic - he finds a way to bring sex into the conversation.