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That wait will extend itself further if you are with a narcissist.You can’t win with a man like this and no matter what you say or do, he will defend himself against your ‘accusations’ and challenge and browbeat you to take his view of things. Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).There are nine criteria of which five need to be met: 1. Source: NPD In general, the points that I’ve highlighted in bold reflect the most common complaints from women about their ‘relationships’ with Mr Unavailable.
Not only does he get to convince himself that he must be a ‘great guy’ because of all of these women giving him attention, but by spreading himself thin he keeps his distance from everyone but always has a woman to ‘fall back’ on.All of the blowing hot and cold manages down your expectations and after a while, you feel OK with what he is offering. He might make references to the future today (Future Faking) but if you bring up the future next week, he’ll tell you off for being needy.Mr Unavailable is a walking contradiction – He sees himself as Mr Wonderful, a great catch even, when in actual fact, he’s Mr Nightmare. Whatever role he feels like playing, you are expected to jump to his beat and play along.Well the first thing I have to bluntly ask is, what’s in it for you?They get to avoid certain things and these men reflect negative beliefs that they hold about themselves, love, and relationships.