More black women dating
Sometimes I think black people look at white people and think they have a problem free existence because of their whiteness, living in picket fence neighbourhoods surrounded by nice and civil neighbours, with men coming home after a hard day at work, with dinner on the table, served by a smiling housewife who still looks sexy in an apron, explaining their hard day at work whilst their wives lovingly gazes at them in admiration, rewarding them with a night full of passion like almost every night and including lots of oral sex because as we all know white women give plenty of oral sex right? Its this fantasy that has many white men running to Russia and Asian for mail order brides and why the divorce rate amongst white couples is so high, they feel white women aren’t catering to them anymore.In fact I would go as far as to say black women are more supportive than white women to their lover, black boys and men in general.Alternatively, have you ever seen a woman with a good man who loves and respects her? Think about the rage you feel living as a Black man in a country that has been and is systematically discriminating against and killing you and your community. If your woman caught you texting three other women after you were just telling her how much you love her and being with her, does that not warrant anger/attitude?
I also feel they like to compare themselves to other races and feel left behind thinking that the white women submits to the white man, which couldn’t be anymore further from the truth, she only submits to the white man, if he is a leader, has good judgement and has a plan just like most black women do, just like most women do. If white women happily submitted to white men all the time, there definitely wouldn’t be any feminist movements.
Read the comments section of any posts on interracial dating.
You’ll see how quick we are to point out our issues with the other gender, but rarely accept hard truths about our gender or do anything to change them.
However, rooted in a white supremacy structure, White women are always assigned presumed innocence and purity, and it’s that very innocence that has gotten Black men wrongfully imprisoned or killed. Yes, but this comes from being a double minority; it comes from being oppressed not only by White people, but by the only other person you’d hope would understand oppression and not inflict it upon you, but does so anyway based on gender: the Black man. However, if a Black woman does get an attitude with you, ask yourself: Why? If you don’t, don’t expect bad behavior to be met with kind words and non-reaction.
This perception that comes from slavery pushes the notion that White women are sweet and docile while Black women are wild, angry and uncontrollable. There are plenty of White women on the show who kill their men out of anger, rage and jealously. If someone treats you badly, aren’t you going to react?
you’d think after all the sexism they’ve experienced as white women they would lend a helping hand.